Post of
today is dedicated to those persons that «I don’t celebrate St valentine day
because is a commercial event» to those couples who are not anymore in the
phase «I don’t eat, I don’t sleep, I’m almost making goal to the final match of
the world championship», because it’s
too easy to speak to lovers in love who walk one meter from the ground, today I
want to make it harder trying to convince those who take everything for granted
that nothing is for granted and everything is a precious giftJ Its important to seize every
opportunity to celebrate, smile and feel good no matter what it is. Frequently
I hear words of disenchantment on the theme of Love, like “look how the world
is going” or “everybody does like that” but you don’t have to care about what
the others are doing or about cynic and sad reflections of the world. You, with
your actions and your facts, you have the power to reverse trends, break
negative spirals, plan and create positivism around you. I’m not talking about
doing this just for one day, but about the need to develop an attitude
finalized to live better. I could write entire days my thoughts on this topic,
but this is not a poetry blog and I don’t want to bore you, so I will limit
myself to some nice advices to put in practice immediately, which I could
summarize in “how to come out in a great way from a tricky St Valentine’s day”J
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It
counts the thought. Its truth but there must be a thought. Note for Messieurs: Ladies
love flowers, just one flower will make your beloved happy if fresh, scented
and offered with a smile. We are able to pass 20 times in front of the roses
bouquet offered by our beloved and smell it every time, smile and think “how
lovely!”, we are like that. Note for Mesdames: just be beautiful and organize a
candlelight dinner, light, or your Romeo will fall asleep before tasting the
chocolate cupcake!
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Try
to substitute half of daily blames with praises
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Never
stop talking, remember that “we don’t have nothing to say to each others
anymore” it’s a nonsense
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Don’t
lose visual and physical contact, a look, a kiss or hold the hand tight
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Don’t
be afraid doing the first step.. the only risk you take is to give a smile!